In this third post in our What Attracts Men series, we’ll examine what colors attract men and what that could mean for you.
Believe it or not, there are colours that are more attractive to both men and women than others.
That’s because different colours evoke different emotional responses.
For example, many hospitals use blue because it evokes a feeling of trust. Green symbolises growth, harmony, and freshness.
Purple is the combination of the stability of blue and the energy of the colour red.
So, if you want to increase your chances of catching a guy’s attention using colour, what colours attract men the most?
Now, before we look at what colours attract men, it’s first important to think back to the first post in the series, which discussed the fact that men are visual.
The main thing to remember when it comes to getting a man’s attention is the following:
If you want to get a man’s attention, you need to be seen.
And there are many ways to increase your “visibility,” one of which is using colour.
For example, a healthy-looking, fit female will ALWAYS get a man’s attention. I know it ain’t fair, but that’s just how it is.
The same goes for short skirts or tight pants.
Guys will almost always look or glance to check if they need to look more.
And it is not always for the right reasons, but we will look anyway because we are visually inclined.
“My husband doesn’t look,” I hear some of you say; well, all I can say to that is, “Yes, yes, he does.”
Now, I also know that it might paint men as being very shallow, but be it as it may, it is what it is.
In fact, one of the interesting problems in the animal kingdom is that females are usually far more “dull” than their male counterparts.
Scientists have long considered and researched various reasons for this phenomenon, wondering why.
One theory is that since males compete for the attention of females for procreation, standing out less as females, in a sense, restricts “sexual harassment” or too much attention from males.
So, in the wild, Mother Nature devised her own plan to “manage” or deal with the fact that males are visual.
For if it hasn’t, it might have become simply too much for the females, it seems.
But, back to humans …
If you want a man’s attention or more of it (yes, that includes your husband’s), you must understand and then “exploit” this inborn tendency.
Being “invisible” in a man’s world is not a good thing. Not if you want to be seen and get his attention.
And as I said before, using colour is one natural and straightforward way of becoming more visible.
But the question is, what colours attract men most?
And perhaps, women as well?
What Colors Attract Men
Now, if you haven’t guessed it already, the colour most men and women find attractive is red.
Who knew?
Red is the colour of fire and blood, often associated with sexy red lips or the ravages of war.
Both create strong emotional reactions and a bond that is often irrepressible.
Consequently, if you want to wear colours that attract men and help them remember you, then the most obvious choice to lead with is the colour red.
However, and this is a critical note, you can overdo it with the colour red.
So, if you choose to go with red, a good rule of thumb is moderation. Less is more in this instance.
Don’t wear a red dress, necklace, or lips—even if they are all in different shades—because it will be too much.
Instead, choose one thing or area – your lips or your dress, and make it count.
Pick the area that highlights your best asset.
For instance, if you don’t have full lips, it’s best to use a red dress that flatters your figure.
Now, perhaps at this stage, I should use a personal example.
When I saw my wife for the first time (before I knew who she was), she dyed her hair bright red.
She was also super fit and had a beautiful face (especially her eyes and smile), but it was her red hair that caught my attention the first time.
I saw her from afar, so I couldn’t see her well, but her red hair stood out like a light in the dark.
I couldn’t miss her.
In fact, a lot of guys couldn’t miss her.
When I met her, she used to work for this really big and busy media company, and “word on the street” was (that’s code for what her close girlfriend told me); very few guys could walk past her without turning around to have a glance.
Fortunately for me, once she met me, that didn’t matter anymore, as she only had eyes for me, and I got to put a ring on her finger.
True story.
Why am I sharing this with you?
By dying her hair red, whether she knew it or not, she accentuated her very nice face and, in the process, highlighted one of her greatest assets.
In hindsight, chances are very slim that I would have noticed her the way I did back in the day if it wasn’t for her very bright red hair.
And sometimes all you need is to catch someone’s attention, and before you know it, Bob’s your uncle.
So, using red to highlight your best asset instead of overdoing it is a good strategy.
Also, remember, using a colour like red can highlight parts of you that you don’t want to make stand out.
Just keep that in mind.
If you’re self-conscious about your figure or body type, don’t wear red.
If you have a nice smile, you can wear red lipstick (in moderation) to drive attention to your mouth.
That said, when it comes to colors that attract men, one color that you should never wear is yellow.
Most men and women remember what their partners wore on their first date—or at least some aspect of it.
They can also tell you whether it was or was not attractive.
And, for the most part, very few people find the colour yellow attractive.
It’s simply not memorable, or at least not for any of the right reasons.
So, yellow is not your friend.
It is not a colour that attracts men.
Other colours that attract men and women also find attractive include colours like blue, black, and purple.
These are all good colours to go with if you’re looking to stand a chance of being perceived as attractive.
Personally, I love the pairing of black and re or black and orange.
These colours are a great pairing of colours.
In addition to what I said before about red, it could increase your partner’s heart rate because it is sexy, sassy, bold, and daring.
Men are generally attracted to people who are confident in their abilities, and few things say you’re confident, like red.
We also know that, aside from yellow, men also find brown to be unattractive on women, and women aren’t all that thrilled with pink on men.
And here is a fun fact – the colour worn by more women on their first date is red, and the colour more men wear is grey or black.
So, what does all of this mean for you?
Simply this:
When you’re trying to be more visible, make a good impression, or be remembered, what color you wear is just as important as what you wear.
The colour you wear makes a difference!
Fashion Tips for First Dates
The Power of Sensual Colours in Attraction
Choosing the right colours for your outfit can significantly influence first impressions, especially on a first date.
Sensual colours often evoke deeper emotions and can enhance physical and emotional attraction; which you obviously want!
Therefore, colours like deep reds, royal blues, and rich purples are not only visually appealing but also stimulate feelings of passion and intimacy.
Here are some examples:
- Deep Reds: Often associated with love and passion, wearing red can increase attraction levels, making it a top choice for romantic encounters.
- Royal Blues: This colour symbolizes stability and depth, promoting a sense of trust and reliability in your date’s perception.
- Rich Purples: Known for its association with luxury and creativity, purple can make you appear more charismatic and enchanting.
Choosing the Best Color to Wear on Your First Date
Now, when planning for a first date, selecting the best colour to wear is crucial as it can play a significant role in colour psychology and attraction.
Neutral tones like black, white, and grey can be safe choices (men often choose this, as mentioned), but incorporating elements of more vibrant colours can make a memorable impact.
Moreover, when choosing your outfit’s colour palette, also consider the setting and time of the date to ensure harmony and appropriateness.
- Black: Represents sophistication and makes a powerful statement of confidence.
- White: Conveys purity and simplicity, ideal for a clean, fresh appearance.
- Gray: A practical and timeless choice that communicates reliability.
And here is a final tip: if you are wearing red lipstick, don’t reapply it at the end of the evening.
Instead, layer on some lip gloss, which will make your lips seem more kissable and won’t smear over your date’s face.
Personally, I love glossy lips, just in case my wife reads this :)
