There is a particular kind of anxiety that doesn’t always feel like anxiety. It feels like planning. It feels like responsibility. It feels like thinking ahead, solving problems,

It is rarely the slammed door that confuses a relationship most. A slammed door, at least, tells you that someone is angry. Far more confusing is the heavy

This is a bit of a rant. You’ve been warned. I read a lot of simple advice online. Influencers. Thought leaders. Coaches with clean lighting, white teeth, perfect

You have probably heard the formula. Maybe it was a wedding sermon, a marriage-prep course, a pastor’s counselling office, a podcast hosted by a smiling couple in matching

My dad had a way of cutting through noise with a single sentence. When someone would go on and on, making grand declarations, performing certainty, he would wait

There are only a few things that get me riled up, like this topic, so let’s get into it right now. There’s a real crisis happening with men,

Not long ago, if you wanted serious guidance about your relationship, you went to a marriage counsellor, read a book by a qualified psychologist, or perhaps attended a

Every year, thousands of long marriages end not with a fight, not with a crisis, but with an announcement that arrives out of nowhere, sometimes at a dinner

Twintig jaar. Dit is hoe lank my vrou en ek al in hierdie ding saam is. En as ek sê ‘daarin’, bedoel ek alles… die seisoene van ongelooflike