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helping Couples create happier marriages

About Gideon.

Gideon is the creator of TheRelationshipGuy.com, a top-100 marriage advice blog that helps married couples create happier relationships. He trained as a professional counsellor (DipProfCouns., DipMSHT.) and is a marriage blogger and coach. He has been happily married for over fifteen years and is a dad of two. He also holds Bachelor and Master degrees in the field of Theology and is currently studying Psychology at Massey University (New Zealand).

couples tend to have issues in three areas...

Download any of the free eguides below to quickly discover vital concepts, strategies, and tactics to overcome three common relationship barriers and start succeeding in your marriage!

Increase Your Romance

This guide discusses how to enrich your love relationship by increasing the romance between you. You'll learn how you can improve your communication, decrease negative disagreements, and increase intimacy in your relationship.

better your communication

Effective communication is essential for any married couple that wants to create a lasting and fulfilling love relationship. This guide discusses a four-step process to create more effective and loving dialogue as a couple.

resolve your conflict

This guide shares what accomplished marriage counsellors say about defusing the conflicts couples have in marriage, tips to keep a marriage fresh, what strategies don't work, and 8 ways to resolve conflict (and more).

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What people are saying

Angela, new zealand

Independent Consultant

Gideon genuinely wants to see you achieve. He’s seriously inspirational and understands the importance of work life balance. Gideon gives good  business or practical advice and is always available to help.

Lloyd, New Zealand


Gideon has taught me some vital principles that make all the difference. All’s well that begins well. The law of preparation. Small things make the difference. Action without thought = failure. Action with thought = Success. Thanks Gidz!

Vince, new zealand

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I first met Gideon Hanekom at an organised office meeting as a guest speaker. Bottom line, Gideon gets to core issues swiftly and with absolute honesty, the same honesty, along with life-changing strategies leverages one forward to the next challenge and beyond. I would recommend Gideon to anyone who truly wants to make a positive change in their business world or personal life.



Gideon reminded me how to be a great husband. When I first met Gideon, I had been married for seven years and was starting to become complacent in my marriage. His services helped strengthen my relationship with my wife, to ensure we live a happy and fulfilling life together.

Nicolette, new zealand

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Gideon guided me through a very unsettled time of my life and inspired me to make positive changes. I highly recommend Gideon!

Yvonne, new zealand


Thank You Gideon you are Inspiring, enlightening, encouraging, humorous, generous and kind and always willing to help me solve what’s on my mind.