About The Relationship Guy Blog

OurDatingJourney.com rates us under the Top 50 relationship blog in 2021, Feedspot.com rates us as one of the Top 100 relationship blogs on the web in 2021, and LoveConnection.org rates us under the Top 100 marriage blogs in 2021. 

This healthy relationship advice blog's mission is to provide couples with quality relationship advice, love help, and dating tips.

I'm Gideon, the creator of TheRelationshipGuy.com, one of the best relationship websites giving healthy relationship advice about love and life.

Its goal is to provide you with high-quality content that is mostly free and that can make a significant difference in your life and relationships.

But why should you give me any of your time or attention?

Well, you don't...

The decision to be here is all yours, and I appreciate it tremendously.

I can only try to provide you with something of value that will have some influence and, hopefully, will be of some use to you.

And should you care, here's a bit about me...

Before diving into psychological studies, I studied Theology (religious studies) for six years at Stellenbosch University, and worked as a pastor for 15 years. 

Following our relocation to New Zealand, I went on to train and qualify as a hypnotherapist (DipMSHT) in 2012, and as an eclectic professional counsellor (DipProfCouns) in 2013.

Additionally, I earned a Graduate Diploma in Arts (Psychology) and am currently pursuing postgraduate studies in psychology at Massey University (Auckland).

Apart from studying psychology, managing a family investment business and coaching mental skills for local sports teams and some international athletes, I also spend a lot of my time these days as a relationship and dating blogger.

Most importantly, however, my wife and I have been happily married for nearly sixteen years and have two kids.

Gideon and minette paihia scaled

My wife and I on a weekend away

Where should you start?


Here’s My Suggestion ...

Go read through some of the articles on my blog as they contain massive amounts of value that help you for FREE.

Also, make sure to download my complimentary Couples Starter Kit to guide you in managing the three (3) most common challenges couples face: communication, conflict, and intimacy.

Pretty simple, right?


Now, let's get to work!