Sexologists’ Top Five Signs He Wants You Badly Sexually

by Gideon
November 21, 2022

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Have you met someone and felt the sparks flying in the air, or are you in a long-term relationship feeling new signals from your man? Either way, you want to be able to tell when a man desires you. So, in this post we will reveal several signs he wants you badly sexually are according to sexologists.

Importance of Sexual Intimacy in a Relationship

Sexual intimacy is crucial in every long-term romantic relationship. In fact, an excellent way to gauge the health of your marriage is by asking how often you have sex.

Not only does it bring you closer to your partner, but it also releases feel-good hormones and endorphins. And frequently being exposed to good hormones after sex makes us associate better feelings with our partner, which is crucial because it helps to create a strong emotional bond.

When we feel good about our partner, we are more likely to be open and honest with them.

We are also more likely to be more committed and invested in the relationship.

Signs He Wants You Badly Sexually

So, simply put, sex isn’t everything, but it does play a role in helping a relationship last longer by strengthening the bond between partners.

He Can’t Keep His Eyes off You

Can you sometimes feel your partner or potential partner undress you with his eyes? That is often a big sign that he wants you badly sexually, or at least physically. Often when someone desires something, they keep their eyes on the “prize.”

So, if your man is looking at you with hunger in his eyes, then he probably wants to be intimate with you.

According to some sexologists, foreplay begins with the eyes. For instance, Juliet Allen says that a good amount of eye contact before and during sex is amazingly powerful and connective on so many levels.

Eye contact can be a very powerful thing and although there are many ways to interpret eye contact, in general, if someone is looking intently at you, it could be a sign that they’re attracted to you.

When we like someone, we tend to want to make eye contact and hold their gaze. This is a way of showing our interest and wanting to connect with the other person.

Signs He Wants You Badly Sexually

If someone is looking at you intensely, it could be a sign that they want you badly sexually.

Of course, it’s always important to read the situation and the person before making any assumptions, but if you’re wondering if someone wants you sexually, paying attention to their eyes can be a good place to start.

In the case of men in particular, when you strip them to their core, men like to pursue or “hunt” women, because it is in their nature to do so. That is based on the theory that men are natural hunters and that they enjoy the challenge of the chase.

However, while there may be some truth to that, it is also important to remember that not all men are the same.

Some men may prefer to take a more passive role when it comes to dating and relationships, while others may be more than happy to do the pursuing.

Ultimately, each individual man decides how he wants to approach the women he is interested in.

There could be many reasons why a man can’t keep his eyes off a woman he’s pursuing.

It could be that he’s physically attracted to her and can’t help but stare.

He could also be trying to gauge her interest level by looking for any signs that she’s interested in him too. If he sees her looking back at him or smiling, it could be encouraging him to continue pursuing her.

Another possibility is that he’s simply nervous and feels the need to keep an eye on her, so he doesn’t miss his opportunity.

Whatever the reason, it’s often clear that he’s interested in her and is hoping to get to know her better.

On that note, here’s a bonus tip; if you want to drive him wild, then catch him in the act and stare back at him for men don’t need much encouragement from women.

A little goes a long way. Do not underestimate the strength of eye contact. 

He Can’t Stop Touching You

This applies to long-standing relationships, new ones, or potential ones. If your man or a man you know has never-ending excuses to be around you or touch you, chances are his fingers are hungry for more.

Does your husband or partner kiss you often?

Does he hold your hand or cuddle you through the night?

Does he ensure to brush his hand over you while passing by?

These are all signs that he wants you, and he wants you badly.

But how would this look like for a potential partner?

Does the man in question touch you often while talking to you?

He might rest his hand on your knee or pat your shoulder. You may feel his hand linger longer than the average friendly touch. Touching you is well into flirting territory, no matter how much he tries to disguise it.

Signs He Wants You Badly Sexually

If he finds every excuse to be near or touch you, you can be sure he wants you sexually. Chances are he can’t stop thinking about it.

On the other hand, if your significant other doesn’t touch you or goes out of this way to avoid it, you can be sure that sex is the last thing on their mind.

He Makes “Dirty” Jokes

Does your partner or potential partner find some way to make everything dirty?

Can he turn a normal thing naughty with a twist of words?

Do dirty jokes roll off his tongue like it’s nothing?

Chances are he’s got sex on his mind when he’s around you.

Why is that?

What we think about is often reflected in how we talk. Making dirty jokes around you is a strong sign he wants you badly sexually since that’s all he can think about.

And no, these aren’t the nasty jokes he cracks in front of the boys. They are funnier and sexier and designed to test you and even make you blush. His goal might even be to get you to think about sex around him as well. That way, he’s one step closer to the real thing.

So, how should you respond to that?

One could argue that if you’re into the guy too, it could be fun to get in the game with him. If he makes a joke, make one back. That type of back-and-forth banter is a great way to flirt and helps him know you have a sense of humor and are perhaps interested too.

Also, while he might already be crazy about you, learning your humor is compatible with his will help him feel and act more confidently and openly towards you.

He’s Cleaned Up His Act

Has your husband or partner suddenly started dressing better around you?

They may wear a new cologne or try something new with their hair.

Men only do something with a clear purpose.

If you noticed that your man or a man, you’re interested in has started putting more effort into his looks, he’s trying to impress you.

Signs He Wants You Badly Sexually

Why would he try to impress you?

The answer is simple.

He wants you to look at him and be stunned.

He wants you to want him as much as he wants you.

Dressing up indicates that he wants to seduce you, and one of the signs is that he wants you badly sexually.

Reward his effort by noticing the change and complimenting it. That will let him know he succeeded in getting your attention. Any positive feedback will improve his self-esteem as well.

He Talks About Sex Every Chance He Gets

This one might be pretty obvious, but have you noticed that the conversation always finds its way back to sex?

Does he want to learn more about your preferences, or does he want to talk about sex generally?

That’s often a sign he wants the real thing.

It doesn’t matter if the relationship has lasted years or days.

Sex is a topic that you can go on and on about.

If he likes to talk about it with you, he probably wants to do the act too.

This might be a strategy to learn how you feel about it and also what your likes and dislikes are in the process.

Conclusion

Whether the relationship is yet to form or has lasted many years, men often show the same signs he wants you badly sexually. And if you can pick up on these signs, you’ll be one step ahead.

Once you know the signs, it will help you choose a man who is compatible with you and has similar intentions.

Learning what men want and need is one of the most powerful ways to improve your relationship or attract the man you want for yourself.

What other signs does he give off that he wants you badly? Let us know in the comments below.

About the author 

Gideon

Gideon is the founder of TheRelationshipGuy.com, a top-50 relationship blog (2021) and top-100 marriage blog (2021) which focuses on providing healthy relationship advice about love and life. He earned a Master's degree in theological studies before training as a professional counsellor and hypnotherapist (DipProfCouns., DipMSHT.) almost 10 years ago. He completed a graduate diploma in Psychology and is currently pursuing postgraduate Psychology studies at Massey University. He has been married to his wife for over sixteen years and is the dad of two children. His articles have been published on Marriage.com and The Good Men Project.

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