Advice and resources to help couples strengthen commitment, rebuild trust, improve communication, and grow together in long-term relationships.

Marriage

When Certainty Becomes Control: Why We Try to Manage the People and Outcomes We Love

There is a particular kind of anxiety that doesn’t always feel like [...]

When Certainty Becomes Control: Why We Try to Manage the People and Outcomes We Love

Marriage

5 Pieces of Sexless Marriage Advice for Men from a Man Who Has Been There (updated)

Today’s article looks at sexless marriage advice for men from a man [...]

5 Pieces of Sexless Marriage Advice for Men from a Man Who Has Been There (updated)

Marriage

Passive-Aggressive Behaviour in Relationships: What It Looks Like and How Couples Can Change It

It is rarely the slammed door that confuses a relationship most. A [...]

Passive-Aggressive Behaviour in Relationships: What It Looks Like and How Couples Can Change It

Marriage

God First, Spouse Second, You Last: Why this Marriage Hierarchy Falls Apart in Life

You have probably heard the formula. Maybe it was a wedding sermon, [...]

God First, Spouse Second, You Last: Why this Marriage Hierarchy Falls Apart in Life

Marriage

Are You Telling Me, or Asking Me?

My dad had a way of cutting through noise with a single [...]

Are You Telling Me, or Asking Me?

Marriage

Strong Men Don’t Need an Audience

There are only a few things that get me riled up, like [...]

Strong Men Don’t Need an Audience

Marriage

The Relationship Advice That Sounds Good on Instagram But Breaks Down in Real Life

Not long ago, if you wanted serious guidance about your relationship, you [...]

The Relationship Advice That Sounds Good on Instagram But Breaks Down in Real Life

Marriage

When He Walks Away: The Psychology Behind Late-Stage Divorce

Every year, thousands of long marriages end not with a fight, not [...]

When He Walks Away: The Psychology Behind Late-Stage Divorce

Marriage

Wat Is, Is — En Ander Leuens Wat Ons Onsself Vertel.

Twintig jaar. Dit is hoe lank my vrou en ek al in [...]

Wat Is, Is — En Ander Leuens Wat Ons Onsself Vertel.

Marriage

The Curated “We”: What Happens to a Relationship When It Lives Online

When couples share their relationship online, they’re not just documenting moments. They’re [...]

The Curated “We”: What Happens to a Relationship When It Lives Online
Gideon Hanekom Specialist Wellness Counselling
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