Small Things Matter in a Big Way

By Gideon, 22 Feb 2025


Small things matter in a big way.

Nowhere is this idea more true than in a love relationship with another human being.

In a love relationship, small things are usually big things and big things tend to have a smaller value.

Always speaking respectfully to your spouse or treating them with kindness and affection are small investments that yield big returns.

Going on an extravagant holiday might seem big at that moment, it might even be, but in the long run means very little when a marriage is coloured by frequent strife, poor communication, little connection, and lack of intimacy.

In that case, a daily hug will always take you further than all the money you can spend momentarily.

Small things matter in a big way when it comes to your marriage.

When it comes to love, the rules are different.

And when it comes to your spouse, big is nice, but small is priceless.

Aim to be big on small.

For when small becomes the way, big also starts meaning something.

About the author

Gideon

Gideon is the creator of TheRelationshipGuy.com, a top relationship blog that ranks 20th among the best relationship blogs in 2025 according to feedspot.com. The website helps couples to create happier, healthier, and more intimate relationships. Gideon is a trained professional counsellor and holds post-graduate degrees in Theology and Psychology. His articles also feature on popular platforms such as Marriage.com and The Good Men Project.

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