Wellness Check-in
Before we meet

A short wellness check-in

This takes about three minutes, one short question at a time. It helps me understand where you’re at before our free 15-minute conversation, so we can use that time well. There are no right or wrong answers, and nothing you enter here is stored or kept anywhere — your responses stay on your device until you choose to send them to me on WhatsApp.


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Over the past four weeks
I felt tired out for no good reason
Over the past four weeks
I felt nervous
Over the past four weeks
I felt so nervous that nothing could calm me down
Over the past four weeks
I felt hopeless
Over the past four weeks
I felt restless or fidgety
Over the past four weeks
I felt so restless I could not sit still
Over the past four weeks
I felt depressed
Over the past four weeks
I felt that everything was an effort
Over the past four weeks
I felt so sad that nothing could cheer me up
Over the past four weeks
I felt worthless
One more question
Over the past two weeks, how often have you been bothered by thoughts that you would be better off dead, or thoughts of hurting yourself in any way?
You’re not alone, and support is available right now

Thank you for sharing that. If you’d like to talk to someone before we meet, please reach out. These services are free and available now.

SADAG Crisis Line: 0800 567 567 (24 hours)
Cipla Mental Health Helpline: 0800 456 789  |  WhatsApp 076 882 2775
Akeso Psychiatric Response: 0861 435 787 (24 hours)
Please select an answer to continue.
A little more context
Are you currently seeing, or have you previously seen, a psychologist, psychiatrist, counsellor, or other mental health professional?
Last one
Are you currently taking any medication related to your mental health, such as for mood, anxiety, or sleep?
Please tick the consent box to send your check-in.
Based on your answers

Please call one of these now
SADAG Crisis Line: 0800 567 567 (24 hours)
Cipla Mental Health Helpline: 0800 456 789  |  WhatsApp 076 882 2775
Akeso Psychiatric Response: 0861 435 787 (24 hours)
Emergency: 10111 (Police) or 10177 (Ambulance)

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