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Are You Struggling to Connect with Your Partner?

  • Do you feel like you're drifting apart?
  • Are frequent arguments driving a wedge between you?
  • Do you wonder if your relationship has lost its spark?
  • Are you looking for ways to deepen your bond and build a lasting connection?

If you answered "yes" to any of these questions, you're not alone.

Many couples face these challenges, but the good news is that there are proven strategies to help you overcome them and create a thriving, resilient relationship.

Welcome to Your Path to a Stronger Relationship

At TheRelationshipGuy.com, I believe that strong, healthy relationships are the cornerstone of a fulfilling life.

I also believe it shouldn't take you long to understand what principles you need to know and actions you need to take to start making a positive difference in your relationship.

This stuff should NOT be complicated. 

That's why I love guiding couples through the ups and downs of marriage, because we’ve been there too.

We haven't just studied this stuff!

That's also why I'm like to suggest that you learn Dr. John Gottman's Sound Relationship House framework right away; it's a proven framework that can transform your relationship into a thriving partnership built on trust, love, and mutual respect.

As a husband of nearly 19 years and relationship mentor to many in the past, there is no doubt in my mind that all happy, healthy, and intimate love relationships do NOT happen by accident...

They are built!

Like a house.

And the stronger the foundation and structure of that house, the more lasting the entire thing AND the more enjoyable and safe for everyone inside it.

So,

What is the Sound Relationship House?

Developed by renowned relationship expert Dr. John Gottman, the Sound Relationship House model is based on over 40 years of research with thousands of couples.

It's designed to help you and your partner build a solid foundation for a happy, lasting relationship.

The Sound Relationship House consists of seven essential components:

  1. Build Love Maps: Discover the depths of your partner's world.
  2. Share Fondness and Admiration: Cultivate a culture of appreciation.
  3. Turn Towards Instead of Away: Strengthen your bond by responding to each other's needs.
  4. The Positive Perspective: Foster a positive outlook on your relationship.
  5. Manage Conflict: Learn healthy ways to navigate disagreements.
  6. Make Life Dreams Come True: Support each other's aspirations.
  7. Create Shared Meaning: Develop a shared vision and values for your life together.

The idea is that when you have these 'layers' in place, you have the best chance of creating a happier, healthier, and more intimate relationship.

And my wife and I can attest to that...

So,

Join Our Newsletter Series

Are you ready to transform your relationship?

If you are, before you do anything else, make sure you subscribe to our exclusive newsletter series, where we'll unpack each stage of the Sound Relationship House in detail.

Once you've done that, you'll receive insights and practical tips each week to help you apply these principles to your own relationship.

This is the fastest way I can help you get your marriag back on track!

What You'll Get:

  • Weekly Insights: Deep dives into each component of the Sound Relationship House.
  • Practical Tips: Actionable advice to improve your relationship immediately.
  • Expert Guidance: Learn from the wisdom of Dr. John Gottman and his research that stretches over many decades.

But,

Why should you Subscribe?

Good question...

In short,

By subscribing to our newsletter, you'll also gain weekly access to a wealth of knowledge that can help you build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship, starting right now.

If there's one thing I can teach you right off the bat it's this - nobody's coming to save you.

It's up to you and your spouse! 

So, whether you're newlyweds or have been together for decades, the Sound Relationship House offers valuable insights for every stage of your journey together.

In my opinion, it's one of the fastest ways to start course-correcting in your marriage, since it's based on sound research rather than opinions or feelings.

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Don't miss out on this opportunity to start strengthening your relationship.

Enter your info below to join our newsletter series and start building your Sound Relationship House today.

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When you subscribe, you'll also become part of a supportive community of couples who are all committed to building stronger, healthier relationships.

Share your journey, learn from others, and find inspiration as you apply the principles of the Sound Relationship House to your own life.

"Gideon reminded me how to be a great husband. And I first met Gideon, I had been married for seven years and was starting to become complacent in my marriage. His services helped strengthen my relationship with my wife, to ensure we live a happy and fulfilling life together." Adam, Australia

About Us

Our mission is to guide couples to build happier, healthier, and more intimate relationships through wisdom, guidance, mentoring, and proven, research-based ideas and strategies.

I'm passionate about providing the guidance, tools and resources you need to create a thriving partnership, learned by walking the path rather than just theoretical knowledge.

We've been married for nearly 19 years and I can tell you that marriage is much more enjoable when it's thriving, but sometimes surviving is all you got because it's not all rainbows and unicorns all the time!

This stuff can be tough at times!

Marriage is not for the faint of heart.

Getting the girl or guy and dating and buying a dog, all that stuff is easy...

It's when kids, kids with disabilities, the death of a baby or child, heart attacks, cancer, mental illness, financial challenges, job changes, and stuff like that start showing up that your relationship really gets challenged.

The stuff of dating is child's play.

If you can't make that with someone, you're not ready of anything more...trust me!

If you're struggling without kids, you're not ready for kids (if you want them) AND you still have a boatload to figure out as a couple.

But, you don't have to go about it alone.

There is support... 

Let me guide you through the valleys and peaks of your relationship with wisdom, experience, insights, and tools that truly work.

I cannot do it for you, but I can offer a place to talk, reflect, think, plan, be challenged, and grow...

Start by subscribing now and start your journey towards a happier, healthier relationship today.

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