The Six Needs Snapshot — The Relationship Guy
A six-needs snapshot

What’s actually driving how you live?

What you see on the surface, the argument, the boredom, the distance, the dissatisfaction, is rarely the real story. Underneath is usually a need being met, or unmet, and until you can see that, you keep solving the wrong problem.

We’re all driven by six core needs. We have all of them, but most of us prioritise one or two above the others, and that prioritisation shapes more of life than people realise.

Here’s the harder part. We tend to repeat behaviour that meets these needs, even when the behaviour is costing us, because somewhere underneath it’s still delivering. We also move away from what doesn’t meet the need, even when that avoidance is itself the trap. That’s why patterns don’t shift through willpower. They shift when you can see what they were trying to give you.

This short assessment helps you identify your top human need, the invisible driver shaping how you live, how you work, how you love, what you reach for, what makes you feel close, and what makes you feel alone.

It isn’t a psychometric test. It’s a structured check-in. About seven minutes, thirty quick statements, a handful of choices at the end, and a detailed result tailored to you.

Answer honestly, not how you’d like to be. The result is only as useful as the truth you bring to it.

Question 1 of 30 3%
Tiebreaker 1 of 5 85%
Quick either-or

Choose the one that’s more true for you, even if both feel partly true.

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