- Brand NEW From Gideon Hanekom -
"My New eBook Reveals How To Build a Loving Relationship That Lasts..."
From the Desk of
Gideon Hanekom
Relationship Coach
Northland, NZ
2019
Dear Friend,
Are you longing for the passionate relationship you know you deserve?
And ready to learn how to make it a reality?
Then keep reading.
Falling in love is the easiest part of a relationship.
FACT!
But keeping the fire of a love relationship burning high, is the hard part.
Because creating a loving relationship that lasts takes 1) time, 2) commitment, 3) the right approach, and 4) perseverance.
And that's the point where a lot of couples end up falling short.
They hope things work out rather than work things out.
Hope is great for perseverance but rubbish as an effective strategy to create lasting results.
You need more than hope!
And that's what I want to talk to you about here ...
If you want to learn the strategies to overcome the various difficulties which present themselves in our love lives, as well as how to deepen your love for each other, then this is the most important letter you'll read today.
I'll show you WHY in a minute ...
But first, a Disclaimer ...
Please understand that any results I'm sharing with you are not typical. I’m not implying you’ll duplicate them, get any similar results, fix your marriage, or do anything for that matter.
I have been happily married to my wife for over thirteen years, have learned many valuable lessons only married life can teach, have studied relationship dynamics for a long time, and have worked with many different couples. I am not average in this regard.
The average person who buys any “how to” information gets little to no results and for many different reasons. I’m just using any examples or results as references for example purposes only.
Your results will vary and depend on many factors … including but not limited to your situation, mental health, background, experience, and committed action.
Any marriage and love relationship entails some sort of risk ... you're sharing a life with another unique individual after all.
If you're not willing to accept that, please DO NOT GET THIS BOOK!
Now, with all that being said ... let's dive right in and let me share with you ...
Some Crucial Facts About Successful Love Relationships ...
Truly joyful, happy relationships have two people that know what they want in their partners.
They are FOCUSED on communication, intimacy, and keeping the spark alive.
Past relationships have hurt us.
We don’t know what we really want.
We don’t understand basic communication patterns.
Bill Lemley says, "When nobody around you seems to measure up, it's time to check your yardstick."
Do you know what you actually want in your relationship? Are you asking for too much? Not enough?
Do you believe that you can have a fulfilling, passionate long-term relationship? Do you have faith that, even though you and your partner might be stuck in a rut now, you can bring the excitement back?
And...do you know HOW to build such a joyful relationship?
Ask yourself…
- Am I currently happy with my relationship?
- Do I wonder where the passion went?
- Am I loving my partner the way they want to be loved?
- Would my life be better if I knew how to “Keep The Fire Burning”?
From the time we’re young, we’re implanted with false ideas of what it means to be in a relationship.
We spend our entire lives thinking that passion is just for dating and “newlyweds.”
False ideas like these:
- “The excitement dies once you’ve been in a relationship for a while.”
- “Only a few couples manage to achieve that.”
- “I’ve never been in an exciting long-term relationship.”
- “Passion doesn’t last.”
- “Everyone gets divorced now, why even bother…”
It’s like living in isolation. We desperately want to find the passion we deserve.
To break through the doldrums of routines that have held us back. To figure out why we’ve lost that spark and how to get it back.
To let absolutely NOTHING stand in the way of the passionate love we deserve.
To stop giving up at the first sign of “not tonight.”
But we don’t know how.
We’re held back by myths and boring routines.
But what if there was a solution?
A way to break out of our rut, understand the difference between infatuation and deeper, true love, know what we want, keep the spark alive, and CONFRONT our relationship fears?
Now there is...
Let me tell you ...
Exactly What You're Getting...
This book is very different from most things you've read before because it shows you the step-by-step process to go from infatuation to a truer, deeper love, conquer boring routines, discover how to keep the passion alive, and much more!
There is no fluff or filler. Just heaps of sound strategies to help you start creating good and positive results in your love relationship as quickly as possible.
It immediately gets down to fundamental principles in no uncertain terms or polished language, showing you exactly where you need to start, how to do it best, what to most, what to avoid like the plague, and why.
It's also easy to read so it won't take you months to finish and before you can start implementing the different strategies.
It is just 190 pages with 5 different key parts and a complete summary of each, which means you can read it pretty quickly.
Here's a short outline of the key parts in this book and what they might mean for you:
This powerful book contains 35 lessons that lead you on a step-by-step journey to teach you how to have a PASSIONATE relationship.
You will discover how to show love to your partner, knowing the importance of sexuality and sensuality so you can live a life together that's filled with excitement and joy.
In this relationship-changing book, you’ll discover:
- The SURPRISING ways you can work with the chemistry of your body to bring back that loving feeling
- How to OVERCOME the myth that your passion will disappear
- How to ELIMINATE negative relationship programming from your childhood
- How to PREPARE yourself for more meaningful communication
- Techniques to MOVE from infatuation to an even deeper love
- How to ACCEPT change
- How to DETERMINE what you need from your partner
- How to identify CHALLENGES and then conquer them
- STRATEGIES to keep the spark
- And so much more!
This powerful journey could absolutely change your relationship.
In 20 years, you could look back on THIS as the time when you finally realised you were capable of maintaining a passionate, long-term relationship.
When you accepted love in its truest form.
When you stopped being held back by your routines, discouraged because you didn’t understand how to keep the spark alive, and developed the relationship you were DESTINED to have.
This is your moment ...
Your fork in the road ... Your door to an exciting relationship that stays exciting.
The key to the cage has been given to you. You can either open the cage or throw it away.
It’s your choice. Will you be truly, passionately loved or lonely?
You could try to learn all of this on your own, but it would require hours upon hours of reading and research.
And you wouldn’t have the guidance of an expert so you wouldn’t really know if you were making progress.
Or you could be taken by the hand and guided on this life-changing journey.
Which will it be?
I hope you choose the latter.
This book has 5 parts with each part diving deep into each theme, giving you a great insights and strategies for how to apply it in your own love relationship.
They are:
- Module 1 - Where Did All the Passion Go?
- Module 2 - The Power of Communication
- Module 3 - Handling Disagreements
- Module 4 - Your Space - My Space - Our Space
- Module 5 - Sex and Sexuality
What You'll Learn About Specifically:
- Why the passion and intensity of your attraction to each other has lessened.
- Powerful strategies to assist in communicating with each other, so you’re both heard, and your relationship is strengthened.
- How to listen to and respect each other through the rough times of your relationship.
- How to handle things when one of you wants more personal space. Learn how giving space is about love and will strengthen your relationship.
- How to strengthen emotional and sexual intimacy… and some fun sex games to spice up your physical relationship.
But how will this book HELP YOU?
In short ...
You’ll discover that the decrease in passion in your relationship is a natural part of life and why this is so, and what to do about it.
You’ll learn specific ways to speak to your partner no matter what is happening in your life.
You’ll have detailed and specific instructions on proven ways to communicate with each other, even in the difficult times.
You’ll discover why you or your partner wanting personal space doesn’t necessarily mean that your love for each other is disappearing.
You’ll discover how sexual desire changes and how you can adapt your sexual relationship and remain emotionally intimate.
Finally, you’re going to ...
- Let NOTHING stop you from accomplishing your relationship goals
- PURSUE the passion you’ve been longing for
- OVERCOME ALL the negative relationship myths that have held you back
- FINALLY learn to work through challenges together with your partner
- Learn what YOU want from your relationship
- STOP putting it off and REKINDLE your passion today
But that is just the tip of the iceberg ...
The Habit System Designed to Make You Happier ...
As much knowing and applying the right principles in your love life is important to create a lasting love relationship, true happiness comes from something else.
I truly believe that a happy person can create a happy love relationship, but an unhappy person cannot, or at least, not without real difficulty.
And if you're waiting for your relationship to get better BEFORE you can be happy, you're in for a rude awakening!
When your happiness is tied to another person or being in a certain type of relationship with them before you can be happy, you're setting yourself up for failure.
Now, I also believe that you MUST choose to be with the right person who makes you happy, but your happiness isn't solely dependent on that.
Being in a relationship with someone else who's happy in themselves makes everything else so much simpler.
Because the moment I become solely responsible for my partner's happiness, we're in trouble as a couple.
It will simply become too taxing and draining to take responsibility for your partner's happiness and overall emotional health.
Yes, of course we are all allowed our off days when our partners just need to pick up the slack, but that's not what I mean here.
It's when one partner has to start carrying the burden of making the couple happy that things become strained, imbalanced, and difficult.
So, because happiness is such a crucial element in keeping the fire burning and creating a love relationship that lasts, I decided to add a BONUS eBook to this one (you can't buy it anywhere else in my store).
"Habitual Happiness - The Habit System Designed to Make You Happier."
Here is what we cover in it:
Understand a simple truth ...
Happiness doesn't just show up!
So, waiting for it to come knocking on your door is pointless.
It's our responsibility to learn, understand and apply as many principles and habits relating to happiness as we can, in order to become happier in ourselves.
Yes, the world isn't perfect and it's getting harder and harder for many to keep their heads up and keep moving forward.
But the ancient Stoic Philosophers believed that the fastest path to disappointment was in trying to control the things outside of our control - like the regrets of the past, fears for the future, other people, or the world.
No.
A better use of our time is to start with what we DO control, namely ourselves.
And this BONUS eBook will be a good start.
So, HOW can you get my new Book PLUS bonus?
Here's What To Do Next ...
The "cost" of the book (plus BONUS) is $8.60, and you get it instantly as a PDF download.
Why $8.60?
Because working with me one-on-one would cost you hundreds of dollars (if approved as a client) ...
An because printing and shipping from New Zealand are expensive and often a pain in the butt.
Not to mention the fact that when shipping out physical books, a small percentage of books shipped out usually gets lost in the mail. And some others could take over three weeks to arrive from New Zealand. We are down-down-under after all.
But, honestly, even though those are all valid reason, the truth is I've just plucked the price out of the air.
Also, I figured you'd prefer to get the book immediately, rather than having to wait a couple of weeks so downloading is better.
So, as soon as you place your order today (below), you'll be taken to a page with the download links, as well as an email receipt with the download links.
You can download the books instantly and read them today.
You can access your books anywhere, instantly, without having to wait for the post office to get it to you!
Oh, and in case you were wondering ...
THERE IS NO CATCH
I know there are some websites out there that offer you a great deal on something but then they stick you in some membership program that charges your card every month.
This isn't one of them.
There's NO hidden "continuity program" you have to try ... or anything even remotely like that.
I'm giving you this entire book at cost, PLUS the BONUS book, as a means of helping you and by adding adding real value.
My hope is that you'll love it and this will be the start of a good relationship between us for years to come.
With that said, there is ONE thing to keep in mind:
Time Is Of The Essence
Here's why.
The longer you wait to work on your own levels of happiness
AND learn to strategies to create a love relationship that lasts,
the tougher things can get
Research (cf. Gottman-Institute) shows that the average couple waits six (6) years after problems started sticking their head out before seeking help.
The problem with that it is that it's usually too far gone by that stage. The sooner a couple seeks help or make changes, the better.
What I'm saying is this - if you're reading this letter it means you're interested in this book and believe that your relationship can be improved, which also means you might not have time on your side.
Furthermore, and this is just a fact more than a warning - I will sell this book in my general online store in the near future, but at a higher price than here.
So yes ...
This is time sensitive and yes ...
You Really Are Getting This Book for NZ$19 and
the "Habitual Happiness" bonus book.
Oh, and by the way, even though you're paying a ridiculously low price - you're still protected by …
My B-B Guarantee (best and boldest):
Just email me your receipt and I'll give you back your $19 with no questions asked.
How's that for fair?
I really hope you take me up on this and get your copy today ...
Thanks for taking the time to read this letter and I look forward to hearing from you soon!
P.S. In case you're one of those people (like me) who just skip to the end of the letter, here's the deal:
I'm giving you a 190 page book, with 5 key parts and complete summaries of each, that outlines the exact strategies for keeping the fire burning and how to build a loving relationship that lasts.
All you pay is a measly $8.60.
(This price is cheaper than one-on-one coaching and covers my cost).
***** I'm also giving you a BONUS book on creating habitual happiness in your life.
This bonus book is important because it shows you what happiness is, why it's important and the 7 core habits you need to adopt in your life to create happiness.
I'm giving it to you as a gift because I truly believe that
happy people create happy relationships much simpler and easier than unhappy people hoping the relationship would make them happy.
This is a time-sensitive offer (see above) - both for your sake and because I'll be selling this book in my online store for higher later on.
There is no "catch" to this offer. You will not be signing up for any "trial" to some monthly program or anything like that. There is also no up-sell of any kind.
In fact, if you don't like the book let me know and I'll even give you back your $8.60
DISCLAIMER:
Please understand that any results I'm sharing with you are not typical. I’m not implying you’ll duplicate them, get any similar results, fix your marriage, or do anything for that matter. I have been happily married to my wife for over thirteen years, have learned many valuable lessons only married life can teach, have studied relationship dynamics for a long time, and have worked with many different couples. I am not average in this regard. The average person who buys any “how to” information gets little to no results and for many different reasons. I’m just using any examples or results as references for example purposes only. Your results will vary and depend on many factors … including but not limited to your situation, mental health, background, experience, and committed action. Any marriage and love relationship entails some sort of risk ... you're sharing a life with another unique individual after all. If you're not willing to accept that, please DO NOT GET THIS BOOK!