Learn to live authentically even if you have lots of doubts, past hurts, and critics in your life.
Isn’t it time to stop being dominated by what other people think? To live YOUR life? To be your true, authentic self? To create a life that makes you happy, and not someone else?
Truly joyful, happy people are those who live wholehearted, authentic lives. They don’t wear masks, don’t pretend to be someone else, don’t let the opinions of others command them.
They are FREE to be the person they were made to be. Free to live the authentic life. Free to love themselves for who they are.
And yet so often, we feel driven and ruled by what OTHER people want. We want to be authentic…
...BUT WE DON’T KNOW HOW.
Brene Brown says:
“Authenticity is a collection of choices that we have to make every day. It's about the choice to show up and be real. The choice to be honest. The choice to let our true selves be seen.”
Don’t you want that?
To be able to let your TRUE self be seen? Without fear. Without shame. Without the need to apologize?
Do I want to live an authentic life?
Do I want to be free from the opinions of others?
Do I always feel like I’m wearing a mask when I’m around others?
Would my life be better if I was living an authentic, joyful, free life?
From the time we’re young, we’re told to be someone else.
Be smarter, like her.
Be well-behaved, like him.
Speak up, quiet down, study this, don’t go there, work harder, take it easy…
It’s like living in a cage. We desperately want to break out.
To be free. To let our true selves shine forth.
To discover our authentic selves and develop a healthy self-concept.
To stop living someone else’s life and start your OUR lives.
But we don’t know how.
We feel stuck. Caged. Imprisoned by fear of others.
But what if there were a solution?
A way to break free, spread our wings, and experience the joy of the authentic life?
Now there is...
The step-by-step process for letting go of what others think and living as the REAL you...
This powerful course contains more than 60 lessons that lead you on a step-by-step journey to true, freeing authenticity. It's a journey of reflection, clarification, courage, self-acceptance, and love.
This powerful course contains 6 main modules with more than 60 lessons that lead you on a step-by-step journey to true, freeing authenticity. It is a journey of reflection, clarification, courage, self-acceptance, and love. Each module starts with key ideas for that module, followed with various lessons covered different aspects of discovering and expressing your true authentic self. The modules and their content are released weekly to maximise their effectiveness and give you enough time to process, reflect and apply the various principles.
How to discover who YOU truly are (and NOT who others want you to be)
How to build UNSHAKABLE self-esteem (that no one else can tear down…)
How to let go of mistakes and learn to ACCEPT yourself (and finally move on)
How to FIND your life purpose and stop wandering from thing to thing
"His services helped strengthen my relationship with my wife..."
“Gideon reminded me how to be a great husband. When I first met Gideon, I had been married 7 years and was starting to become complacent in my marriage. His services helped strengthen my relationship with my wife, to ensure we live a happy and fulfilling life together.”
"...Gideon gets to core issues swiftly and with absolute honesty..."
"I first met Gideon Hanekom at an organised office meeting as a guest speaker. Bottom line, Gideon gets to core issues swiftly and with absolute honesty, the same honesty, along with life-changing strategies leverages one forward to the next challenge and beyond. I would recommend Gideon to anyone who truly wants to make a positive change in their business world or personal life."
"...shown me the tools to prepare mentally to be ready and prepared both on and off the pitch..."
"As a professional rugby player reaching your physical potential is of the utmost importance, whereas mental preparation is often neglected. Gideon has shown me the tools to prepare mentally to be ready and prepared both on and off the pitch and I’ve seen the results first hand. Thank you.”
You’ll learn how to have a true understanding of who you are. You’ll find your personal identity, discover your deeply cherished values, and learn how to tap into your deepest passions. The journey to authenticity begins with understanding yourself, finding out who you want to be, and then charting the way forward.
Once you understand yourself, you’ll give your self-concept a full makeover. You’ll discover the power of reevaluating your past, building and maintaining unshakable self-esteem, being proactive about increasing your satisfaction in life, and determining who you really want to be.
It’s a beautiful thing to accept yourself without judgement. In this powerful section, you’ll learn what it means to find true self-acceptance. You’ll come to terms with who you really are, let go of your past mistakes, and learn to forgive yourself. You’ll break free from those crippling self-doubts, eliminate your negative self-image, and learn the power of constructing a healthy self-image.
Only when you learn to love yourself can you begin to love others. You’re going to finally learn how to embrace your individuality and stop desperately seeking the approval of others. You’ll learn how to avoid the fatal flaw of comparing yourself to others and the power of believing in yourself. Finally, you’ll learn how to love your body, emotional self, intellectual self, and spiritual self.
Through a series of revealing self-questions, you’ll unlock your true life purpose. You’ll also tap into the power of writing and meditation to help you find out what you should focus on for your life purpose. You’ll learn how to make your purpose an integral part of your life and you’ll discover the amazing benefits of finding your life purpose.
In this final section, you’ll learn how to leverage everything your learned so that you can live authentically. You’ll dare to be yourself, reveal your true personality, and find the courage to express your feelings. You’ll present yourself honestly, unlock the power of your inner voice, and develop the courage to create originality. To top it all off, you’ll create a compelling vision of the future for yourself.
Each lesson finishes with a daily action step to keep you on track and accountable.
You don't need to figure out how you can apply the topic of each lesson, as it's all done for you.
Simply follow the steps, do the tasks, and see how they peel back the layers and help you develop slowly but surely into your authentic self
Oftentimes, at the end of a course or workshop we struggle to remember so much of the content.
Therefore, each module concludes with an online quiz highlighting the key points through assessing you with a few simple questions.
Simply go through the lessons, do the daily tasks and complete the online quiz get the most out of this course.
The content of each module will absolutely guide you on a journey to being your true authentic self.
Therefore, to ensure that you get the most out of this experience, I've also included various additional resources to help you even more.
Look out for the orange download buttons to get instant access to all the bonus downloads.
Gideon Hanekom is a relationship coach and the creator of The Relationship Guy – a top relationship advice blog and coaching site for couples. He is a trained professional counsellor and one of New Zealand’s top relationship coaches and bloggers. His blog has been rated under the top 50 relationship blogs in the world since 2018. He’s been happily married for almost fourteen years and is a dad of two. He also holds Bachelor and Master degrees in the field of Theology and is currently studying Psychology at Massey University.
...inspiring, enlightening, encouraging, humorous, generous..."
“Thank You, Gideon, you are Inspiring, enlightening, encouraging, humorous, generous and kind and always willing to help me solve what’s on my mind.“
“Gideon helped me through a very unsettling time of my life!”
"...he transformed his own life by following the strategies that he teaches..."
“I’ve been following Gideon’s journey and it’s very inspiring to see how he transformed his own life by following the strategies that he teaches his clients. I love the strategies he put in place to maintain a healthy lifestyle, both physically and mentally.”
This powerful journey could absolutely change your life. In 20 years, you could look back on THIS as the time when you discovered true authenticity. When you were set free. When you stopped being what OTHERS wanted and became the person you were DESTINED to be.
This is your moment. Your fork in the road. Your door to freedom. The key to the cage has been given to you. You can either open the cage or throw it away.
It’s your choice.
Will you be your authentic self or continue living as you have been?
Now, you could try to learn all this on your own, but it would require hours upon hours of reading and research. You wouldn’t have the guidance of an expert. And you wouldn’t really know if you were making progress.
Or you could be taken by the hand and guided on this life changing journey.
Which will it be?
So, if you're ready to get into it, then let's do it!
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To make this an absolute no-brainer, you get access to this course today for 60 days, in which time you can consume all the lessons, download all the resources and do whatever you want. If, at the end of that, you feel you got zero value from any of it, you simply email me with your details and get a refund. No questions asked. I don't want to take money from someone I've been unable to help. It's bad karma.
30 Days to Greater Self-Love
We can think of self-love as a desire to give our own well-being a level of importance and respect. If you love yourself, you have regard for yourself. It’s about treating yourself as well as you would treat anyone you love. But it also about understanding that you can’t do much for others when you don’t love nor make yourself a priority too. This short eBook (plus bonus resources) will guide you over 30 days to greater self-love.
In order to strengthen resilience, it’s important to understand the concept in depth. Resilience is the ability to move forward by growing through every part of life’s process. Struggling is a natural part of living. What matters is how we react to struggle. It’s easy to let difficulty keep us down. It isn’t easy to stay afloat when the waters are rocky, and it’s okay to feel that struggle. Resilience is associated with toughness. And part of being tough means admitting to difficulty and working through it instead of ignoring it.
Most success-oriented people dream of gaining control over themselves and their lives. It is the ultimate accomplishment for many. If you do not learn how to master ourselves, making the consistent changes necessary to create a new result in life, becomes very difficult. That’s what this eGuide is all about. If you want to learn how to start taking control of your life, self-mastery is a good starting point.
There are no prerequisites for this course. It’s open to anyone who wants to increase their satisfaction in life by learning to be authentic. Your success in this course depends on your willingness to take action. Take the time to do the suggested self-reflections and exercises.
Those who want to be themselves around others, increase their self-esteem, build their confidence, and live their life according to what’s important to them (not someone else)
You’ll find out what it is to live authentically. You’ll discover a lot about yourself and how you got that way. You’ll learn how to accept yourself and love yourself just the way you are. You’ll understand your own value and what you have to offer the world. You’ll boost your self-confidence. You’ll develop the courage to be yourself around others. You’ll discover your passions and how to enjoy them in your daily life. You’ll see how you can structure your life around what matters most to you. By living authentically, you can simplify your life, reduce stress, strengthen your relationships, build a more satisfying career, and increase your happiness and fulfilment in life.
All the modules are drip released every 5-7 days to ensure enough time between lessons. Since this course assumes action on students part, I wanted to make sure that you have enough time to consume and apply the content.
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We live in a world that doesn't always encourage people to just be themselves. In fact, quite the opposite. Sadly, however, we're paying a real price for that with our mental and emotional health, not to mention relationships with each other. But maybe 2020 can be the year (and decade) where that changes for you. Maybe this is your time to rediscover your true authentic self AND find the courage to step into that identity and out into the world. I hope that for you. So, join me on this journey to authenticity and freedom.