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Learn My Exact Step-By-Step Framework for Creating More Intimacy In Your Love Life

My New eBook Reveals My Step-By-Step Formula for Creating More Intimacy In Your Relationship.

If you want to learn how to create more intimacy and lasting romance in your relationship, this will be the most important book you will read today ...

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But first, the truth...

My results won't necessarily be your results.

We are all different people.

Our circumstances and challenges differ from each other.

What you get out of this book, 100% depends on YOU.

The examples, principles, and strategies you will learn in this book, are all real.

I have used them personally and have taught them to many couples in coaching.

And the pattern is almost always the same ...

Those who are willing to commit to their relationship and improving it with what they have learned, seem to get the best results.

When it comes to relationships, there is no "set and forget" strategy.

It requires an ongoing, daily commitment AS WELL AS doing the things that work, consistently.

So, if you're looking for "easy" answers or strategies that promise you great results WITHOUT you having to do anything or make any changes, then let me just save your time by saying: DON'T BUY THIS BOOK!

Nothing in this book is easy.

It might be simple to understand and even seem like common sense ... But it's not easy.

There are many reasons for that, but to save time, just trust me when I say that.

Lastly, we know that the average person tends to get average results because they tend to stay their course, never try something new, and remain comfortable.

This book will share with you a simple framework containing life changing principles BUT the average person will most likely not get anything from it.

Not because the content's no good ... But because they won't do anything with it.

Now, with all of that said ...

All of this is really simple ... So let me show you what you need to do to start creating lasting romance in your life.

What You Are Getting

This book is most likely very different from anything you've read on relationships before because it's a step by step framework to creating lasting romance.

I have cut out most of the fluff, shared only a couple of examples and stories, but it's mostly life changing concepts and practical strategies.

It immediately gets into why many couples struggle to create happy, healthy, and intimate relationships, and how you can avoid it in your own situation.

It also shares with you the exact step-by-step formula I use with all my coaching clients, which you can take and start implementing in your own situation.

Without a massive cost or commitment.

Plus, it's very easy to read.

I've literally "talked out" the whole thing and transcribed it, so it sounds like me talking to you.

It's not overly technical and there is no complicated academic language you have to get your head around.

It's easy to read.

At just 80 something pages, you can read it in one go and get all the benefit from it immediately.

And like I said, you instantly get access to my coaching step-by-step framework that teaches you the most important principles and practices you need to focus on in your own relationship.

I Haven't Gone Through A Divorce

On this point,

Many online experts have a from "zero to hero" type of story.

I do not.

I've never gone through a divorce that caused me to "wake up" and "see the light" .

(but I did meet my wife and got engaged after three months, married her in eight months, and have been happily married for 14 years now)

So, if that's what you're expecting, sorry.

But I do have a story ...

Going back to my late teens I was dating a very nice girl (she might actually be reading this, so if you are, just skip this part).

It was like striking gold.

A lot of the guys in school wanted to date her, but nobody managed to.

Yet, she said 'yes' to me.

It was my first love, first girlfriend, my first kiss, and I really liked her.

There was only one problem ... I had no idea what I was doing as a boyfriend.

I thought I did, but as it turns out, not really.

Just imagine my surprise when she sat me down after three months and broke up with me.

It was the worst day of my life (back then).

It felt like my heart was ripped out and life would never return to normal.

Celine Dion became my constant companion as I wallowed in my grief and solitude.

I know ... It was dramatic.

But I got over it.

We even hooked up again temporarily the following year, just before I left school.

So it ended well.

Fast forward a bit and a few short-lived relationships at Uni, I ended up in a relationship that lasted for five years.

I didn't know it would, but it did.

Now ...

By that point I've obviously learned a few things about relationships (and women), but not nearly as much as I thought I have ... and could have.

Long story short, the whole thing was just wrong and I should have ended it long before I did, but you live and you learn.

And it's not because she was a bad person or anything like that ... It was just not the right relationship for me.

Yet, I persisted and almost took it too far.

But, fortunately, I came to my senses and ended the relationship before that happened.

I talk about this in my book a bit.

But then I met my (now) wife ...

And it happened so quickly that it's still unreal when I think about it.

They always talk about the Universe sometimes lining stuff up for things to work out, but it really felt like that in our case.

I just came out of a long relationship that didn't work out ... and so did she.

At the point of meeting her, she was going through all kinds of things in her own life.

But unbeknown to us, we were being prepared for each other AND something much greater.

Fast forward to now ... we've been happily (important to point that out) married for 14 years, started a new life in a new country, have two kids, been through hardship and grief ... but are still ALL OVER each other.

Now ... I'm not sharing this to brag or rub it on your face even ...

The point is, I am no more special than you; and neither is my wife.

I'm not some all knowing person who has never made any relationship blunders, always had it figured out, and am now just preaching from a soapbox to all of you ...

NOT at all!

But HAVE learned there are some things that work better in relationships than others.

There are some principles and truths that WILL help you create the type of relationship you want ...

And there are some things that you need to avoid.

But in saying that ...

I've also learned that no amount of principles and strategies will ever be enough when you're with the wrong person for you.

No amount of therapy or counselling will overcome the wrong choice and partner.

And by the same token, there are also a hundred different things that you could be focusing on if you want to create a happier, healthier, and more intimate relationship.

But it's not necessary.

I've learned that for any couple that is just stuck in a rut, have lost their way a bit, and want to regain the romance and passion they used to have, there are only a few you principles and practices you need to know and apply consistently.

And that's what I share with you in this book.

That's what my 6C-Framework for couples is all about.

I detail every step inside this book.

Here's Just A Fraction Of What's Inside

  • What Does It Take To Create A Happy, Healthy And Intimate Love Life?
  • The Two Problems With Expectations In Relationships
  • “The Happiness Gap”
  • Why You Will Need To Do Things Differently From Many Other Couples
  • The Common Mistakes Many Couples Make, And Why It Doesn't Work Out For Them
  • The Cost Of Not Having A Plan Or Strategy
  • My 6-C-Couples-Coaching Framework
  • 4 Very Important Principles That Are Significant For Any Transformation Process

Here's what to do next

The only investment for this book $8.60, and you get immediate access.

That's New Zealand dollars, if you were wondering.

Why did I choose $8.60?


I just made it up.

I didn't really see the point of asking you nothing, because then you would most likely download it but never read it.

Also, asking you $17 while I've stripped out most of the fluff, also didn't seem right ...

I mean, it's worth that (and more) ... but it didn't feel right.

So I chose $8.60, which is literally 100X plus less than most courses you would sign up for.

And when you click the button below, you get the book as a PDF download and you can read it on your phone, tablet, or computer (or print it out if you want to).

Rather than doing the whole "I paid for the book and you pay for the shipping" strategy, I figured you'd want to get the book immediately rather than having to wait a couple of weeks for it.

Personally, I really hate that!

So, as soon as you place your order today, you will be able to download it immediately, and I will also send you an email with the same download link.

From there you can just open it up and start reading.

But ... I also want to give you something else ...

How To Save My Marriage With One Simple Strategy ...

If you're still wondering whether you should buy this book now, I'm gonna make it a no-brainer for you.

When you download this book today, I'm also going to throw in one of my other popular books called, "How to Save My Marriage with One Simple Strategy".

And just like my latest book, it is filled with practical strategies and ideas that can make all the difference in your relationship.

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There is no catch!


I know that there are many websites out there that offer you a great deal on something, but then immediately switch it up by selling you on something more.

We call it "bait and switch".

They also tend to try and get you into some hidden "membership program" you just have to try ... if you want to get the most out of the book you've just bought, that is.

This is not anything like that.

There are no strings attached.

There are no up sells from here.

I'm not going to get you into any membership program (I don't even have one right now).

I'm simply giving you access to my step-by-step framework that I use with my coaching clients, for you to use at a fraction of the cost.

And for the sake of being completely transparent and honesty: 

I'm giving you this entire book as a means to show you that I truly care about people and to demonstrate real value.

My aim and hope is to help you.

Without locking you into anything sinister or long-term.

Unless ... You want me to, of course.

Now ...

Time Is NOT Of The Essence!

Here is why.

Apart from trying to up sell you on something more expensive after you've made the initial purchase, some marketers will also tell you that "time is of the essence".

Heck, even I've used that line before.

We call that the "Scarcity Effect".

It is when I tell you there is a shortage of something or its only available for a limited period of time, so that it creates urgency within you.

But here's the truth ...

Your're downloading a PDF book.

It's not like I'm gonna run out of PDFs.

The only time this will go away is when I take it down from my website.

And that might happen.

But I don't have any immediate time or date in mind.

The only reason I would encourage you to get this book immediately, is because I want you to start creating lasting romance in your life as quickly as possible.

If you can wait, then that's fine.

But then again ... Why are you on this page?

Just so I can tell you there are things you can do to improve your relationship ... only for you to then you wait before learning them?

That doesn't make sense.

So, just get the book now.

Oh, one more thing ...

Join My Tribe!

When you buy my book now, I also want to invite you into my tribe (Private Facebook Group).

No, we are not occult.

And no, it won't cost you a thousand dollars to join.

And no, it's also not a place where I hard sell you on anything.

But it is a place where I try and deliver more value to all the members.

Some people are more serious about creating happier, healthier, and more intimate relationships ... and I try to help them with that.

I'm always up for helping people who are serious about creating new results in their lives.

And I'm inviting you to join us.

The group is still growing, and I would like it to eventually become a tribe filled with positive and happy people, and with you ... we can!

I hang out there frequently and share my latest thoughts, findings, research discoveries, and what's working in relationships.

Here's my simple guarantee ...

I really want to make this as easy as possible for you.

So here is my guarantee:

"I 100% guarantee that you will get massive value from this book, and the bonus book, or I'll return your $8.60 and let you keep the books anyway."

You don't have to prove to me why you didn't get any value from it, I'll just take you on your word.

That's right.

You don't have to tell me anything, or explain anything, or ... anything.

Just ask for your money back, and I will give it to you.

But I'm sure that won't be necessary.

Sounds fair?

This is truly NOT a limited offer but claim your copy now because why wait to create lasting romance?

Thanks for taking the time to read this letter and I look forward to hearing from you soon!


Please understand that any results I'm sharing with you are not typical. I’m not implying you’ll duplicate them, get any similar results, fix your marriage, or do anything for that matter. I have been happily married to my wife for over fourteen years, have learned many valuable lessons only married life can teach, have studied relationship dynamics for a long time, and have worked with many different couples. I am not average in this regard. The average person who buys any “how to” information gets little to no results and for many different reasons. I’m just using any examples or results as references for example purposes only. Your results will vary and depend on many factors … including but not limited to your situation, mental health, background, experience, and committed action. Any marriage and love relationship entails some sort of risk ... you're sharing a life with another unique individual after all. If you're not willing to accept that, please DO NOT GET THIS BOOK!

About The Author, Gideon

Gideon Hanekom is a relationship coach and the creator of The Relationship Guy – a top relationship advice blog and coaching site for couples. He is a trained professional counsellor and one of New Zealand’s top relationship coaches and bloggers. His blog has been rated under the top 50 relationship blogs in the world since 2018. He’s been happily married for almost fourteen years and is a dad of two. He also holds Bachelor and Master degrees in the field of Theology and is currently studying Psychology at Massey University.