Be Wise When Getting Married

by The Relationship Guy
July 26, 2021

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It is simpler to plan a wedding than to find the right person to marry.

It is far easier to get married than to stay married unless you chose the right person.

Focusing on the right thing and putting all your energy into it from the start, can make all the difference over time.

Conversely, putting all your eggs in the wrong basket is unwise, like planning the perfect wedding with the wrong person.

Or pouring all your focus and energy into marrying someone but leaving your marriage to take care of itself is.

The point is this, be wise when getting married, and in life in general, for time will tell.

The more important point is, you don’t make up for an unwise action with more foolish actions hoping it’ll all work out in the end.

Wisdom leads to life the same way folly leads to death.

About the author 

The Relationship Guy

Gideon Hanekom is the founder of, a top-50 relationship blog (2021) and top-100 marriage blog (2021) which focuses on providing healthy relationship advice about love and life. He earned a Master's degree in theological studies before training as a professional counsellor almost 10 years ago. He also completed graduate studies in Psychology and is currently pursuing postgraduate Psychology studies at Massey University. He has been married to his wife for over seventeen years and is the dad of two children. His articles have been published on and The Good Men Project.

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