Be Wise When Getting Married

by Gideon Hanekom
July 26, 2021

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It is simpler to plan a wedding than to find the right person to marry.

It is far easier to get married than to stay married unless you chose the right person.

Focusing on the right thing and putting all your energy into it from the start, can make all the difference over time.

Conversely, putting all your eggs in the wrong basket is unwise, like planning the perfect wedding with the wrong person.

Or pouring all your focus and energy into marrying someone but leaving your marriage to take care of itself is.

The point is this, be wise when getting married, and in life in general, for time will tell.

The more important point is, you don’t make up for an unwise action with more foolish actions hoping it’ll all work out in the end.

Wisdom leads to life the same way folly leads to death.

About the author 

Gideon Hanekom

Gideon Hanekom is the creator of, a renowned relationship blog that ranked among the top 50 relationship blogs and top 100 marriage blogs in 2021. The blog is dedicated to providing valuable insights on cultivating healthy relationships and love in daily life. Gideon holds a Master's degree in theological studies and transitioned into professional counseling almost a decade ago. In addition, he completed graduate and post-graduate studies in Psychology at Massey University. With over seventeen years of marriage to his wife and two children, Gideon brings both professional and personal experience to his relationship advice. His articles have been featured on respected platforms such as and The Good Men Project.

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